Primary Program

On Saturday we had a rehearsal for the primary program, and I had Caleb sitting on my lap.  He doesn't want to sit on my lap, and is too noisy, but so was the rest of my class, so it wasn't too noticeable.  But on Sunday, they were much better behaved, so I ended up having to take Caleb out, after I helped my class do their parts.  Joseph, Austin, Betsy, and Samuel did well on their parts from what I could tell.  The beginning of Sacrament meeting was frustrating too, because Samuel and Caleb wouldn't be quiet of hold still, so I had to take them both out.  Here it was in the middle of passing the sacrament and I'm carrying Caleb, and pulling Samuel out, when he goes limp, and I have to drag him.  Thankfully a lady got up and took Caleb from me, so I could pick up Samuel and carry him out.  So I chased Samuel around for the rest of the Sacrament, in the halls because he would not stop.  Joseph was really sweet though, he brought me out a cup of water, since I had to leave and wouldn't get any.  He also came and find me, when it was time to go up for the primary program.  My primary class was out of control as usual, but we did have a few moments where they actually listened to me. 

I will not lie

Joseph lied to me today, and for his consequence he had to write 25 sentences about telling the truth, and they couldn't be the same.  I enjoyed reading his responses, so I decided to put them here on my blog:
1.  I'm a liar , so I'm not trusted
2.  Lying is the worst thing you could do.
3.  Never lie to anybody
4.  Honesty is the best road to go on.
5.  I want to be honest.
6.  I hate lying.
7.  Lying is a hard process.
8.  I want to tell the truth
9.  I love the truth.
10.  I feel sorry.
11.  I love telling the truth.
12.  Lying is bad.
13.  I don't want to lie anymore.
14.  The truth is good
15.  Wow, the truth is awesome!
16.  Tell the truth.
17.  Don't tell a lie.
18.  Always tell the truth.
19.  I love everything to do with the truth.
20.  I hate everything to do with lying.
21.  Lying sucks.
22.  Lying is for dummies.
23.  Lying is for sissies.
24.  Lying is against the commandments.
25.  Lying is never good.

I finally got to talk to my husband this morning.  It was wonderful to talk to him.  He should be home in another week.  Last night Caleb threw up all over.  I had to shampoo the carpet, and the rocking chair, and change all the bedding, and his clothes, and my clothes.  He was so sad, I hate it when little children are sick.  Caleb seemed better during the day so we went to the primary program rehearsal, it was very interesting since I had Caleb with me.  But we survived.  I made pumpkin chocolate chip cookies, and no bake chocolate oatmeal cookies to share with the kids afterwards.  They gobbled them all up right away, it's a good thing I grabbed some before we left.  Joseph got to go bowling with his "big"(big brother Sean)from the big brother program, they seem to have a good time together.  It's gotten cold again, and every time I take Caleb outside, he just says "cold, cold, cold" and buries his head into me. 

busy days

I know I haven't written the past couple of days, things have just been busy taking care of everything, and then I'm just really tired, and want to go to sleep.  I've been frustrated about the kids not listening or obeying, and gotten upset with them.  But today was a better day, I tried harder to be more patient, loving, and kind.  I prayed more, and listened to general conference talks in the car.  Caleb has shown an interest in being potty trained so we went to the store and bought him pull-ups and a toilet seat, becuase he just falls right in our regular toilet, he is so little.  I'm not ready to start the potty training process, he seems like he is still my little baby.  But, I've also learned to take advantage, when they show they are ready.  We'll see how it goes, I'm just going to let him try it when he wants, I'm not ready to spend all day in the bathroom trying to potty train him.  Caleb has started helping me to get Joseph to do his homework, while I'm telling Joseph over and over again to do homework, Caleb goes over to Joseph and hugs him then tells him "joe joe..homework".  It was great, and even better Joseph went right over and did his homework.  The kids all had dentist appointments yesterday.  Samuel has four big cavities, Joseph has one cavity, and the girls each had one tiny cavity, that didn't even require numbing, and only took 10 minutes to fix.  I also took Samuel in for his first child phsycologist appointment.  He mostly just observed him, and asked me questions.  Samuel was very frustrating though, he was going crazy in the office while filling out paperwork.  Throwing things, running away, being loud...I thought the receptionist was going to pull her hair out.  Anyway I was finally able to calm him down, and he helped clean up all the toys.  We took Joseph to scouts, and the girls to Activity days, while Samuel ran around filling up our water bottle, and dumping it out all over the floor, and then going into the bathroom, getting paper towels, and soaking the excess water up.  I voted on Tuesday, but was disappointed by the turnout.  When we were driving home from scouts it was dark outside, and samuel said "I can't see when the dark is on".  I thought that was an interesting way to put it. 

timing

So I was all excited to get an extra hour of sleep, since we change the clocks for daylight savings.  I had been slowing putting the kids to bed early by 15 minutes the last few days to make the adjustment easier.  So last night I put the kids to bed at what I thought would be eight o clock with the time savings change.  I changed all the clocks at dinner time.  During the night Caleb woke up twice throwing up all over everything.  I changed his bedding, clothes, and mine (he threw up on me too, after picking him up) and then got him back to sleep.  I was really tired, when I woke up.  I looked at my watch and it said it was 7:55am, I was starting to panic realizing we had to leave for church in 35 minutes.  Then I looked at the clock on my phone, and it said 5:55am.  That's when I realized my mistake.  I had turned the clocks the wrong way.  So instead of putting the kids to bed at 8pm, it was 6pm.  Anyway, I was really grateful for the extra time to get ready for church.  We really needed it, we barely made it on time as it was.  Caleb was acting fine when he woke up, so we went to church.  Sacrament meeting was difficult today.  Austin was mad, because she didn't want anyone touching anything that belonged to her, and I was trying to get her to share.  Samuel was not being quiet or holding still, and Joseph wouldn't leave Betsy alone, and Caleb didn't want to hold still either.  I had to take Caleb and Sam out several times.  Joseph followed Caleb out once, and Austin stormed out once, because I asked her to share her toy that Caleb really wanted.  My primary class was very unruly and I had to take one particularly disruptive child to his Dad, and even when he came back he wasn't behaving very well.  I got confused with when our class ended, because our church time changed from 9am to 8:30am, and I'm used to ending on the hour, so I told my class we were done a half hour early, and then when I realized my mistake I had to round them all up and try to calm them down again.  After church, I found out Joseph had been throwing food (I don't know where he got it) and then punched another kid in the stomach because "he made me mad"(says Joseph)  Joseph claims he didn't sleep at all last night, because he was reading by flashlight.  So I told him he had to nap until dinner.  He didn't sleep, but he did stay in his room most of the time.  Austin was really sweet when we got home, she made me a peanut butter and honey sandwhich, and put it on a large plate, and then surrounded it in a pattern with cut up apples, oranges, and sliced cucumbers.  She even made a smiley face out of sliced cucumbers for the eyes, my protein vitamin for the nose (I take a protein vitamin every time I eat, to help me digest proteins) and an apple slice for the nose.  It looked very nice.  She even brought me a glass of water, and a napkin.  I played missionary impossible with the girls, and then downloaded all the general conference talks and burned them to CDs to listen to in the car.  I made dinner of salmon patties, sauteed summer squash, and homemade french fries.  Then the girls and I made mint ice cream for dessert.  I played "go fish" with Samuel and Austin, and we watched "the best two years" and then put the kids to bed. 

Saturday

I didn't sleep very well last night, for some reason Caleb had trouble sleeping more then usual, so when it was time to get up and get chores done, I was a bit grumpier then normal, and the kids weren't cooperating, so we took a break, had morning devotional, and had a little talk, and things went better after that, well at least I handled everything better.  After lunch we drove to Costco, to buy Samuel some snacks to take to his class on Monday.  He needs to bring 24 snacks, that are individually wrapped, and can't be homemade.  Since it also needs to be something Samuel can have, I asked him what he wanted to bring, and he wanted to bring some fruit leather snacks from costco, that have no sugar in them.  So we drove all the way to Costco, and walked around and got samples, and Sam picked out his snacks.  It went pretty well....well, as well as it can go with five children, and shopping goes.  We were going to go to a park afterwards, but Austin started getting a bad headache, so we headed home.  After we got home, I asked the kids to help bring in the groceries (except Austin, who went inside to lay down) I had just brought in some oranges, when Betsy came in crying.  Apparently Samuel bit her leg, becuase she wouldn't let him bring what he wanted into the house.  He got her pretty good, it was already looking really bruised, and he broke the skin through her jeans.  So Samuel got sent to his room, and Betsy and Austin got to lay down and be taken care of.  After Samuel finished his time out, I talked to him, and he apolagized to Betsy, and did three nice things for her.  I made a dinner of waffles, fruit salad, and tossed salad, and then everyone got ready for bed, and spent a little time doing "sheep"ret service acts, since I remined them at dinner, that I hadn't seen any in a while. 

"I Joe Joe"

I haven't been feeling too well the last two days, so I haven't done too much.  I did take the kids to the dentist office to trade their candy in for money.  They earned $2 each from the dentist office, and I paid them between $1-3 for their chocolates, and put them in the freezer.  Yesterday when Joseph left for school, Caleb really missed him, so he put on Joseph's shoes (his extra ones) and his hat, and started walking around the house saying "I Joe-Joe" it was pretty cute.  Joseph has been interested in writing songs lately, he comes home from school with his lyrics written on paper.  They are pretty good, and something he enjoys doing.  The kid's school had a PTO fundrasier tonight with papa johns, so we ordered pizza, and got a red box movie "madagascar 3" and had a pizza/movie night.  Joseph didn't come home after school, so I was getting pretty worried about him, and had Austin and Samuel (our street only) looking for him, and I was calling people.  He finally made it after about an hour and fifteen minutes, and was apparently at a club meeting, that he just forgot to tell me about.  That kid is going to make all my hair fall out....

Halloween

Halloween was crazy, and I was so exhausted after putting the kids to bed, that I didn't even clean up after dinner.  I don't have pictures because I couldn't find my camera, and the kids were insistent on leaving right at 6pm when trick or treating starts. While the kids were at school, I went visiting teaching.  After school we quickly finished homework, I made dinner, and we got everybody dressed in their costumes.  Joseph was a werewolf, and he spiked his hair, and I used face paint to make his face look hairy, and he wore gray sweatpants and sweatshirt.  Austin wore her Gypsy costume, Betsy wore her Red Riding hood costume, Same decided to wear Joseph's old karate uniform, and Caleb wore a tigger costume.  I'm going to try and have them dress up after school, and take pictures, so I can post them.  We went trick or treating around the neighborhood.  There were a lot of kids around, and Joseph saw some of his friends, and started staying with them, even though I told him he needed to stay with us.  We tried staying with Joseph and his friends, but they were too fast, and we lost them.  I didn't want to ruin the rest of the kids trick or treating and I knew Joseph would probably just stay with his friends, and then come home when they were done.  So we continued our trick or treating.  Nothing too eventful happened.  Caleb was really cute, he figured out pretty quickly how everything worked and would walk up to the person handing out candy, say "treat" and grab one candy out of their bucket, and say "thank-you" and blow them a kiss, say "bye" and walk back to me.  It was really cute.  Although if the house had a lot of decorations, or scary costumes, he would have me take him to the door, and would let them or me get his candy, and then take him to the next house, without  a word.  Samuel tired out first and wanted to go home by 7pm, so we started heading back to our house trick or treating along the way.  We got back to our house by 7:45 and walked in and saw Joseph's candy bucket sitting in the entry way, but no Joseph.  I was starting to panic, when our neighbor across the street knocked on the door, and said Joseph was at the other neighbors house.  So I went and got Joseph, and thanked them for watching him.  Apparently when Joseph realized we had been separated, he went back to our house, to find me.  He went to the neighbors to call me, (I didn't have my cell phone with me) and stayed with them, since he couldn't get a hold of me.  So Joseph is in trouble, but I was very happy to see him again and bring him home.